Once upon a time, internet dating was an immensely vague concept. Embarrassed from the dilemma of being the lonely hearts strolling in the empty cyber space; today almost half the world’s population has switched to Virtual dating through various apps. Locking eyes across a crowded bar/cafe might make for a lovely fairytale moment, but when it comes to romantic potential, nothing rivals technology better. People have taken to all forms of internet calling, chatting, video sharing to get to know each other. Here is our hearty guide to turning your virtual dating an ecstasy with minimal agony and setbacks:-
1. Get Creative with Your Profile
Your social or dating app profile is your first impression for the one who is trying to get to know you better. Try making 3/4th of your profile holistically about you and the rest about what you are seeking from a person. In order to make simple adjectives sound interesting to you, try co-relating them to real-life incidents. How about writing ‘extrovert’ as “I like to talk a lot, I just spoke to the cashier at a walmart for half an hour”. Humorous? Make your profile as quirky as you would like to make your job’s presentation. Put a thought to it!
2. Work your Honest Angles
As much as we like an appealing selfie, it is only dishonest and half presentation to a person who is trying to know you in a whole. Try being fair alongside picking your best pictures, while choosing your album. Try giving a shot from all angles. Try bringing context (With hobbies, activities), character (laughing, grumpy) and vanity through your images.
3. Take Charge
Try building a case for yourself where you know what you are getting yourself into. It is extremely important to take charge of information and things all the time to be not conned or not fooled. Try not being passive-aggressive. Try communication, driving virtual dating and leading it into the right conclusions. Many partners find it appealing to take the back seat sometimes. Have interesting chats and try to know the other person deeply.
4. Don’t Rush It!
Virtual Dating is highly reliant on the key aspect of staying patient and humble. Internet dating is relevantly slow with turning around, however can be more profound and deep. If taken the right way, it can reep you maximum results. Learn to wait for replies or even for things to eventually work out and reach a conclusion. Just like the real world, you might face rejection or even do so, but there is nothing to lose is there?
5. Don’t Lie, Hide Or Assume
Lastly, be yourself and let be! As tempting as it is to undergo stages of lying or hiding our true personalities with Virtual dating, it reacts badly when you have to take it to physical dating. Just as how you are also not expected to assume things about the other person or simple attach yourself to a world of dreams. Stay realistic and true at all times. Don’t spill out too much, but don’t portray the opposite.