Relationships form after passing several phases of love until it becomes a bond that makes you comfortable for life. Ups and downs, although, are inconsiderable aspects in this scenario since they’re inevitable. But sometimes, only knowing that someone you’re seeing is in love with you is enough a reason to stay together until one of you says the three magical words.
So close to Valentine’s Day 2022, it’s time we all spread the word of love, accept our love, confess our love, and feel our love. While women tend to be expressive about it, either with subtle hints or with her words, men tend to hide their feelings. Although, we’ve cracked the secret code to help women identify the signs that he’s in love with you. It’s still a secret until he tells you. So, keep it under covers!
If you’re ready to find out if he’s already “There,” then take a look at these signs.
- Catch him staring at you:
Courtesy: AskApril There are those days when you’re doing something random and turn to find him silently staring at you. Has that happened? Well, girl, he’s falling in love with you. It’s during this phase when he’s feeling the jitters and wants to observe even the littlest of the things you do.
- Asks you self-care questions:
Courtesy: GettyImages A man who loves his woman will take a special interest in how she’s taking care of herself. This care could be physical or mental. He will ensure you’re staying on top of your self-care habits by asking you questions that will make her feel special and wanted.
- Starts opening up:
Courtesy: A Conscious Rethink Only a man who loves you will start opening up about his innermost and profound feelings. It’ll either be in the form of childhood memories or about his dreams about the future. Men don’t do that with just anyone.
- Keeps communication lines free:
Courtesy: Happier Human Only those men who are afraid of commitments will be unavailable to talk things through. But someone who’s invested in the relationship will ensure that you don’t have to suffocate your thoughts. He’s willing to communicate for as long as you feel better about whatever it is that is troubling you.
- Includes you in his plans:
Courtesy: Craft Beer When he isn’t in love with you, he will not bother including or asking if you’re free or if you’re okay with him being somewhere else. But a man who’s in love with you will not exclude you from his plans. This habit doesn’t mean you’re a part of ALL his plans. It simply means he’ll keep you involved or informed than just springing things about your time together or your time apart.
- Depicts thoughtful behaviors:
Courtesy: Body Language Central A man in love is thoughtful as hell. He’ll take care of the little things. The things that make you happy, upset, or enraged. When he’s out somewhere and sees something, he’ll pick it up for you, knowing you’ll love it! Bringing in a bottle of water, covering you with a blanket when you’re asleep, or randomly massaging your neck or shoulders when you’re tired are all signs of thoughtful behaviors.
- They support and encourage you:
Courtesy: iStock When you share your dreams with a man who loves you, he’ll not just support you but also encourage you to achieve them. Such men will remind you of your dream whenever you’re demotivated and encourage you to keep following your dream when you’re too lazy towards it. If you’ve seen these signs in your man, he’s probably in love with you. (Yayy)
- He starts saying “we”:
Courtesy: Shutterstock One of the biggest changes you’ll observe in a man when he starts to fall in love with you is that he shifts from the “I” or “you” to use “we.” And if this is really happening, then you have no idea what big of an achievement this is since several men don’t adjust to saying “we” even after spending many years together. That’s a different issue altogether.
Share this with those you think are entering this phase of newfound love. If you’re seeing even a few of these 8 signs, then the confession is not too far. Wait for it until you officially get to revel in the joys of love. Until then, enjoy what’s going on because even this phase becomes memorable when you’re years ahead.