Time seems to get in the way of those in happy relationships. Most of us spend time worrying about how love could take a backseat over the years to come. Some are already struggling in that phase. For some others, spending too much time together in the work-from-home scenario or staying apart for too long also kills the romance and love. But that doesn’t mean it is the end. It only means your love requires some fix-it solutions, and here they are.
1. Spend time with others: Staying apart for a while and spending time with other friends and family members gives you enough time to miss each other. There’s also a lot of conversation to fill time.
2. Plan surprises: When your life gets too monotonous, surprise it with a surprise. Do something different! Plan a mid-week date or bring flowers without an occasion. Anything you like, just break the routine.
3. Pick up a hobby together: It is only when you pick up something together that you get the chance to explore parts of your partner that you didn’t know for so long. It will sure kick in some spark.
4. Filter Negative Thoughts & Responses: Spending too much time apart or together might lead to taking one another for granted. It further results in picking at each other over little things. Rather than that, fight negative responses and thoughts, and speak and spread positivity in your relationship.
5. Enjoy the humor- Sometimes, it is the best emotion to break the tension. Crack a joke or appreciate one that breaks the tension and calms the fight. It is okay to laugh about it unless it isn’t intense.
6. Discuss, ask, decide- Don’t decide things for each other. It annoys the partner, and over time they will develop the feeling that their opinion doesn’t matter to you. Discuss things, ask them what they would like, and decide as a couple!
Renew your relationship; renew your love.